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BLOG: No Excuses, Just an Explanation....

People have been asking what's up with the MPTA...I hope I can shed some light and move this community forward towards healing.

I’ve been waiting for cooler heads to prevail-unfortunately that does not seem to be an option lately.  There always seems to be another issue to tackle, another hot topic for people to share their concerns about, so I could be waiting for a long while…However, I would like to take this opportunity to share some thoughts with the Miller Place-Sound Beach community.  I do not expect  full agreement with my thoughts.  I know that is unrealistic.  What I do hope for is an understanding and respect of another but different point of view regarding a few ongoing situations in our community.

There was much debate and frustration directed toward the Miller Place Teachers’ Association regarding the recent posting of the Straight Talk newsletter. Many community members took offense-and rightfully so-to the frustration expressed by some members of the MPTA toward the community.  There are numerous authors that contribute to the newsletter.  Certain members of the community were correct-there should be a tag-line on the articles that states: “Views expressed are those of the author only”.  The pieces represented are not reflective of the entire membership but rather the author(s) of each piece.  The newsletter is an avenue for members to share their feelings-similar to the blogs on the Patch.  While the author may feel strongly on the views shared in their particular blog, it is not reflective of the entire community.  I would like to take this opportunity to apologize to the community that it was not made clear that the views expressed were of the individual authors only and not indicative of the membership as a whole. 

We do not edit the newsletter for content.  People are entitled to their opinion-whether all agree or not.  It is an avenue to share feelings, information, accomplishments and yes, frustrations.  It is difficult reading the opinion of another when it seems a direct attack, or a differing opinion to ones own.  It is hurtful and causes hard feelings.  I can not apologize if members feel “unsupported” by the community.  People have different interpretations of the meaning “support” and are entitled to feel how they do.  Perhaps that feeling of a “lack of support” comes as a result of certain members of the community expressing that teachers are not worth the salary paid for the same job that colleagues in other districts are earning.  Regardless, what needs to be looked at is what I can do to help facilitate the change needed to heal the relationships that were harmed as a result of this recent budget season.  Why are there such hard feelings and feelings of lack of support?  I have my work cut out for me.

There are many who are questioning “how could the teachers not be doing something to save their own?”  I assure you, we have been in ongoing conversation with the district, and the Board of Education, since December.  It is a confidential process, and unfortunately, a rather lengthy one.  There are schedules to contend with, exchanges of proposals (more time), as well as other issues that needed to be addressed in order for the district to keep functioning effectively, that have slowed the process down. Contrary to the thoughts expressed by some, egos have nothing to do with the process.  Both sides are trying to do what is best for the kids, the teachers, the district and the community.  It is not an easy task. 

The Miller Place Teachers’ Association is not in the “pocket of the PTO”.  The PTO stands for the “Parent Teacher Organization”.  We work TOGETHER with the parents who are members of this very helpful organization.  We have no control over the events or the funds of this dedicated group.  We work along side them, we support them by attending and working at their events.  We join and pay dues.  Neither the PTO nor the MPTA has control over the decisions made by the Board of Education. 

We understand that there is a tremendous amount of frustration with the teaching profession as a whole.  Everybody, especially the MPTA understands that.  When thinking rationally, people realize that it is not a reflection of the job our teachers do in the classroom, but rather the salaries and benefits that are increasing and paid solely by the taxpayers.  We all feel the same pressures in our own communities, since we are taxpayers too.  Teachers did not create how our salaries are paid-it is an archaic formula that is not sustainable.  It is, however, how we earn our livelihood.  If we were able to create a think tank to come up with alternative ideas to fund education, rather than simply verbally attacking the current system with no plan, we could truly accomplish so much more.  Change is needed, but it will not get done when we are busy arguing on-line.  I welcome the opportunity to meet and facilitate a forum to begin the process of change.  We are not the enemy and welcome the opportunity to prove that.

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MP Majority May 17, 2013 at 01:41 pm
Spoken like a true teacher. Did you know that the average school teacher is only paying 15% of theRead More actual cost of health care premiums for themselves and their families, when Medical healthcare insurance premiums are rising at an alarming 17% per annum? Do you realize that teachers are paid an additional stipend if they work more than 3 consecutive periods in a day? Are you aware that teacher pensions were protected during the stock market crash of 2008, when the average person's 401K was totally at risk? Perhaps if teachers realized how good they have it - look at the BIG picture and outside of their bubble - then they would complain less. Oh and yes, we need our loftily-paid Administrators to kick in some of the salaries, to help pay for stuff. Hard to believe the school districts' mantras that "it's all for the kids".
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wendy L Berman May 10, 2013 at 05:20 pm
Our private street is willing to pay to have the sand plowed back up along our bulheads!!!! The DecRead More and the and the town of crookhaven will not allow it!!! The army corp of engineers are busy with the $$$$$ hamptons!!!!
Ted Ratter May 10, 2013 at 04:29 pm
sorry hit enter and it popped my statement in above too soon... I'm likely right that all townsRead More along sound need to have remediation plans on board, but that doesn't mean they have the funds to get it done. I would not be surprised if the meatballs running crookhaven missed the mother-load of that Superfund.
Ted Ratter May 10, 2013 at 04:27 pm
Jennifer, if Bonner speaks about the town trying to buy the property next to east of Scotts beachRead More (or scots - spelling?) forget about it. that property is meaningless to issues east of that point. Oh by the way this is not confirmed yet but I hear our new Highway guy is/was the lawyer for the guy who owns that track of land. crookhaven makes strange bedfellows hey?
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Marian Larson May 9, 2013 at 06:45 pm
That made me smile! My mom passed away when I was a child and not a day has gone by in the past 37Read More years that I don't think about her and wonder who this woman was who gave her children the gift of life but never had the opportunity to see her children grow up. The little that I remember of her warms my heart. I wish all mothers, stepmothers, grandmothers and Godmothers a blessed Mother's Day! :)